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Čudna rutina para generacije Z je viralna: "Nismo se posvađali godinama" VIDEO

Generacija Z ima jedno jednostavno pravilo u vezama zahvaljujući kojem, navodno, one opstaju, bar je to slučaj s ovim parom čiji video snimak je postao viralan.

23.07.2025.

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Čudna rutina para generacije Z je viralna: "Nismo se posvađali godinama" VIDEO
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Pripadnik generacije Z Džordž Hern podelio je na TikToku jedan video ispunjen savetima koji se odnose na održavanje veze i otkrio je koja je tajna njega i njegove devojke.

Njih dvoje, navodno, žive bez ijedne svađe duže od dve godine, a sve zbog trika koji izvode jednom mesečno.

Mesečna revizija veze je ritual koji su sami osmislili i besplatno podelili sa svima, pa ako mislite i vi da je vredno truda, pokušajte.

Sve se odnosi na strukturu preuzetu iz korporativnog sveta i oni se drže modela prednosti/poboljšanja/ciljevi i razgovaraju o tome šta su cenili jedno kod drugog u prethodnom mesecu, ali i o tome šta bi voleli da vide u narednom periodu.

@georgie_hearn Every month, Ellie and I sit down for a review where we check in and go through 3 things: 1️⃣- Glows We share what we’ve appreciated over the past month, which helps us get clear pictures of each other’s love languages 2️⃣- Grows We share what we want to do more of in a constructive way 3️⃣- Goals We check in on our shared goals for the year While it might sound overly formal or corporate, I’d say it’s a game changer and plays a big part in the fact that we’ve never had an argument in 2.5 years 🤝 Given we review our work, fitness, finances and so on, it seems bizarre to me not to give the same level of commitment to our relationships I’m by no means an expert, but I’d highly recommend giving it a go if you want to build a more intentional relationship or even just as a quick check in #relationshipgoals #fyp #foryoupage #monthlyreview #communication #selfgrowth #youngprofessional#personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #motivation #mindset #inspiration #success #selflove #growthmindset #lifecoach #growth #selfcare #leadership #mindfulness #goals #coaching #selfimprovement #entrepreneur #selfdevelopment #business #lifecoaching #motivationalquotes #selfhelp #successmindset #positivevibes #empowerment ♬ Riptide - 𝙇𝙭𝙪𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙯 🫶🏻

Kao i sve što se podeli na društvenim mrežama, i ovo ima pozitivne, ali i negativne komentare. Ipak, za kratko vreme uspeli su da skupe preko milion pregleda, ali i dalje ima onih koji ovo smatraju smešnim.

"Da li radite i procenu rizika pre zajedničkog izlaska?", "Koji su vam ključni pokazatelji uspeha za sledeći kvartal", bili su neki od komentara.

@georgie_hearn One of my favourite takeaway’s from Dale Carnegie’s ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ is the idea of giving people a good reputation to live up to in order to bring out the best in them 🏆 This was one the first self-development books I read, back in 2018 while doing my dissertation research in California 🏄‍♂️ At the time, my main thoughts were how I could be a good leader as incoming captain of my college football team, but it’s funny how long thees nuggets of wisdom can stick with you ⚽️ Fast forward 7 years and the other day I caught Ellie outlining just HOW GOOD I am at chopping up onions 🧅 We had a good laugh when I pointed out that I noticed what she was doing and to be honest I’m glad at least one of my ramblings about all things self-development has proved useful for her! 🤣 Hopefully this is a nugget of wisdom you can take forward to improve your relationships, whether at work or outside of it 📈 In the meantime, for me, it seems I’m now signed up to a lifetime of onion chopping- goggles on! 🥽 #fyp #foryoupage #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #motivation #mindset #inspiration #growthmindset #lifecoach #growth #selfcare #mindfulness #goals #coaching #selfimprovement #entrepreneur #selfdevelopment #business #lifecoaching #selfhelp #successmindset #positivevibes #empowerment #selfgrowth #productivity #habits ♬ The boy does nothing by Alesha Dixon - Shar🍭

Hern je istakao kako ga negativni komentari ne pogađaju, te da se nada da će njegova priča bar kod nekih parova podstaći bolju komunikaciju.

@georgie_hearn So this is Ellie, we’ve been together 2.5 years and I thought it was about time I introduce her here The past few months have been an absolute rollercoaster of incessant change, but Ellie has been the one constant throughout I think it’s fair to say that I’m not sure I’d have had the conviction to take so much change head on without Ellie as a rock of support Similarly, a lot of my growth over the past few years has been facilitated by having such a positive, kind and supportive partner and I feel so lucky to have her in my life It sounds unbelievable to say but we’ve never had an argument or fall out. Of course we have our differences of opinion, but we make a conscious effort to communicate, check in on each other and work through things together and that’s worked pretty well for us so far We’ve been in Sydney for a month now and it’s been an amazing challenge to create our lives together here from scratch We’re still settling and finding our feet and I think it would be easy for me to take for granted how beneficial it is to have Ellie there every step of the way So as we look ahead to continuing to grow our lives here, I thought I’d take a moment to stop and appreciate what’s around me and how far we’ve come And a lot of that is down to Ellie, so this digital love letter is one little way of me saying thank you They say “if you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together”. So here’s to building an awesome life together in Sydney #lifecoach #relationship #sydney #fyp ♬ sonido original - SONIDOS LARGOS
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